At some point in time your child will start watching television and a new era of childcare will arise. Here are some suggestions for implementing the process of watching television by your child.

Decide what when, and how long your child will watch television. Set definite limits and content suitable for your child. Monitor what’s going on, and be prepared to remove your toddler from the viewing area if things are getting out of limits.

Talk to your child about what he or she just watched on television. Even a program with elements or a message you don’t like can be a teaching springboard if you put your spin on its content.

Be discerning about children’s videos. Watch them yourself before showing showing them to your child.

Be even more discerning about video games. Even though a toddler won’t have much luck manipulating the controls, she may watch with rapt attention while the older kid’s battle monsters, space aliens, or other humans - and she may view some grisly and disturbing images.

Don’t get into the habit of using the television as an electronic baby-sitter. After a long day it is extremely tempting to park the kids in front of the screen so you can pick up the clutter, get a meal started, or simply put your feet up for a few minutes. Do not leave the television on for hours on end or allow older children to channel surf, because you will lose control of those powerful images and sounds entering the minds of the most important people in your life.

Ask yourself periodically whether television viewing is replacing conversation in your family. Do not allow the television to become a routine guest at any family meal.

If you are having trouble controlling the broadcast material coming into your home, consider disconnecting the cable or antenna and relying strictly on videocassettes that you buy and/or rent.

If television watching is getting out of control and the tube is exerting far more influence in your family’s life than you feel is appropriate, consider as a last resort giving the television a new home for a while - unplugged in a spare room.

Jason Ladock

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