Remember those pre-baby days when eating out was meant lingering over dinner, conversing and enjoying soft music in the back ground? When you go out with your child in tow, things are bound to be different. You may not be able to linger much or even get a decent amount of conversation in thanks to the constant demands of your toddler. However, a few simple adjustments should make dining out with your child a pleasant experience.

First, make sure that the restaurant you choose is child friendly. Some restaurants even have a menu designed especially for kids. This is a good indication that they welcome kids. Some places, especially those meant for romantic evenings or business deals may not necessarily appreciate kids. Reserve such places for an evening out with your spouse or friends, not with your kids.

Ask other parents for their opinion on different restaurants. Restaurants which are frequented by families often have special seating and play arrangements. Of course you may have to give up dim lights and music in exchange for constant din, but your kids will be entertained.

While dining out with your kids you will have to start early since kids eat and sleep much before adults so take their meal times into consideration before you plan the outing. There is another advantage of starting early. The restaurant is bound to be less crowded and you won’t have to wait for long.

While choosing the meal, ask your child what he or she would like to have. Don’t force your likes and dislikes upon them. Let them chose what they want. It does not hurt to have pizzas and ice cream once in a while. If your kid prefers to eat what you have ordered for yourself, ask for a small plate and serve them in small portions from your plate.

If the restaurant you visit does not offer amusement for children, you can make sure that your children bring their own toys and activity kits to keep them from getting bored. Ask them to bring along a favorite toy or some crayons and paper. This way, they can keep themselves engaged.

If you have many kids or if your child is very small, ask for a table at the back or at a private corner so other diners won’t be disturbed if your kids gets fussy. You can also ask to be seated in a booth or cubicle so that you feel comfortable. Glares from other diners tend to make parents edgy so booths and cubicles are a good idea.

If you are dining out with a small baby in town, make sure that you are dressed such that you can breastfeed easily. If you choose not to breastfeed, bring along a bottle of formula for your infant.

Children are messy eaters so make sure that you clean up as much as possible after they are done with their meal. For instance, you can pick up pieces which have dropped onto the seats or tissue paper which has been crumpled and thrown on the floor. You would have done it if you were at home so why not in a restaurant? Restaurants appreciate such small gestures and they are sure to welcome you and your kids if you decide to visit again.

Let dining out be a wonderful experience for you and your kids. Don’t get tensed and angry unnecessarily. Stay calm and come prepared so that dining out with your children becomes an enjoyable experience.

Jason Ladock

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