Once you’ve planted your first kiss on the lips you should pull back for a second to evaluate the situation and look your girl in the eyes (it’s romantic see). An added tip is to make sure that the first one isn’t wet – in fact unless she seems like a wet kisser herself you should never be wet. It’s really not nice to spend the rest of the night with dribble on your face, and it actually irritates my skin randomly too… Unless you’re a dog, just don’t do it.

Now when you go in again this is going to be for a while. Pull her back into the same kiss with your eyes closed and your hands on her back/in her hair. This time you want several kisses of the same intensity without breaking the lip lock. Obviously vary them as you like and be receptive to her as well – no guide will be suitable for every situation.

If she’s receptive the tempo might start to speed up, which means you might start kissing with more open mouths. Now’s the time to send your tongue into enemy territory. To do so, simply push it between her slightly open lips as she kisses and down the side/underneath her tongue. A good first move now you’re in is to circle her tongue – it’s a classic and you can’t go far wrong. You might also like to lick her gums or around the inside of her teeth.

Now you’ll need to break away occasionally or you’ll both suffocate. Once you’re tongue is in it might be fun but you should still pull it out from time to time or it will probably get boring for her. Remember – variety is the spice of life!

As you kiss you also want to make sure your hands are active, think of it as a kiss with added massage action. Stroke her hair, massage her head, and rub/lightly scratch her back. Rubbing her side near her armpit is a good move as you’ll get a bit of side-boob which is extra sensitive without being pervy.

Obviously assess the situation before heading butt-wards, but if you do feel it’s safe to go down there then make sure you do as it’s actually a very sensitive area and pleasant sensation.

If you’ve been playing tongue-wars for a while and given her pretty a much a full body massage then you know you’re in there. Things are probably getting rather hot by this stage so you might want to invite her to sit down or push her back up against a wall. You want things to keep progressing so you might also want to grab her face/stroke her cheeks for a passionate approach, or suck her top or bottom lip to get things steamier. Again you need to judge the situation and her mood.

Mack LeMouse

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