Seduction is more an art and comes over a period of time after a lot of interaction with the opposite sex. Females look out for a lot of factors when they get into a relationship. It could be physical features, status, power, wealth, financial independence, sex appeal, self confidence, strength, maturity, self image, empathy and many more.

Seduction is an art of distracting a woman to the extent that she forgets all your shortcomings and differences and falls in love with you.

Here’s a guide to seduce a woman:

• Empathy is very important to seduce a woman. Since every woman is different, you need to tune your words and actions and tailor to her emotional and physical needs

• Offer the pleasure she craves for before she can express it to you. Women love men with this attitude

• Carry a good positive image and hold your self esteem high

• Look into her eyes while speaking. This would take you a long way in becoming intimate with her

• You need not use poetic flowery words while you speak. Use colloquial language creatively and be soft with your touch

• Your pace of seducing should be very slow. Otherwise, it could embarrass the woman a lot and she would be very uncomfortable in your presence

• Women love intelligence and strength while seduction. But do not be too harsh

• Do not be a conformist to everything. Weak men are never liked by women

• Be honest with your words, feelings and intentions. Faking your feelings will make the woman very sensitive and emotional if she comes to know of it later

• Be transparent about your income, friends, society and interests

• Do not be too clingy. It could be very embarrassing for her

• Do not be too self-praising. Reveal about yourself gradually or when asked. Have some mystery between you both. That could sustain each other’s interest for a long time

• Do not try to flatter the woman. She can look through your words and would not like it. However, you can sincerely express what you feel about her and how special she is to you

• Not every woman would get seduced easily. The efforts are different. Older woman are much easier to seduce as they want to feel young and respond sooner. Younger girls are happy with themselves and may be more difficult

• If seduction fails once, give a gap before you try the same again

• Never show your fears or weaknesses while seducing

• Women get seduced easily with men having good physiques and a nice body odour and warmth

• Never go intimate with a bad smelling body. She may start resisting your company forever

• Seduction is not for people who cannot take break-ups on their stride

• Like minds are required. If you are seducing woman as a fling but the woman becomes too serious in the relationship it can ruin your comfort later

• Never choose girls who are unstable or have a timid personality

• Having sex with multiple partners may be very dangerous to your health. Never fail to practice safe sex methods

Jonathan Pitts

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