Do you feel nervous when talking to a woman for the first time? Are you tongue tied when you try to converse with a women? You are not alone. There are many men for whom talking to women is an awkward experience and leads to silences and pauses in the conversation. It is better to overcome this fear with some simple tips on how to talk well with women. You can take all the advice and suggestions, but, you need to remember that it is you who needs to make the change from being nervous to being confident when talking to women.

Always make an eye contact with the woman that you are talking to. Glancing at the floor and sideways would only make you feel more uneasy. Maintain a relaxed demeanor when talking to a woman. Ensure that you do not fidget or become restless and eager to change the topic. Give enough time for each sentence and weigh your word carefully unless you commit bloomers in your conversation. Try to be poised and if you are standing, keep your feet apart and not clasp them together. If you are sitting, keep the posture calm and give yourself enough room to talk better.

For some interesting topics to talk to a woman, it depends on whether you are meeting the woman on a date or at a causal setting like a party. In case you are at a party, you should show interest in what she is saying and hold her attention when you talk. There is nothing worse than looking at someone and talking to somebody else. Though you may not want to be the center of the attention, you should make the woman with whom you are talking the center of the attention. Try to keep the conversation casual and do not bring up serious or boring topics at first. Upon knowing the other person’s tastes and interests, you can always switch topics. It is better to maintain a casual conversation rather than a long winding and boring one.

Do not get too personal when asking about the women’s details. You can be interested but not overly so. Know where to draw a line between the desire to know more and the limits of privacy. When you are talking to someone for the first time, do not criticize the other person’s opinions and tastes. Give the conversation some time to get into deeper territory and then you can launch into your preferences and offer your opinions. Once you’re comfortable talking to the woman and she does the same, it is time for you to be your natural self.

As mentioned at the beginning, there is tons of advice that you get about talking to women. However, it is your personality that ultimately prevails and hence you should make an effort to look pleasant and presentable. This would keep you in good stead. You should make the effort to please and get noticed and the rewards are pleasant as well.

Jason Ladock

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