To be in a relationship where you are suspecting that your partner might be cheating on you can be a mental torture. However, before you go ahead with any decision that would affect and change your lives completely, it is important that you first check whether he or she is really cheating on you. There are some signs of cheating in a relationship that can help you in substantiating the betrayal of your partner.

Some of these signs are mentioned below:

• Even though there might be sexual attachment between you and your partner but it lacks the emotional attachment. There will be a lack in the intimacy that you had earlier like holding hands, kissing or cuddling.

• There might be a communication gap between the two of you. You will notice that your partner would try and avoid any communication with you and would also avoid spending much time with you. At times this can be a result of excessive workload but it is always better to confirm.

• There might be a strain in your physical relationship. Your partner might keep giving excuses to avoid any physical interaction with you. Physical relationship does form an integral part of a healthy relationship, and this can be one of the points where you can see a clear sign if your partner is cheating on you.

• You might observe that your partner needs privacy when he is on the phone and he or she might try to avoid answering phone calls in front of you. And when he or she answers the phone they move out of the room where you are. Getting phone calls at odd timings can also be a sign of cheating.

• You will also observe behavioral changes in your partner. He or she will start finding faults with what you do every now and then and would not be bothered about your whereabouts. This would mean that your partner is trying to put your faults as a reason for the infidelity.

• Arguments between you and your partner would become frequent, and you will find that your partner would get angry with petty issues that are of less importance.

• If your partner is spending money extravagantly and is hesitant to disclose the bills or where the money has been spent.

• Your partner would have frequent mood swings and would try to stay away from family get-togethers, birthdays and the like. Your partner might suddenly feel bored with work and stop taking interest in the activities of your kids. You will also notice a change in the daily routine of your partner. He or she might leave home early and get back late run away from their duty and responsibilities.

• Your partner might not be willing to accompany you on a trip and encourage you to spend more time with your friends or send you on a trip alone with your children.

If you are observing any such signs in your relationship then start your investigations further into it. The first thing that you should control is your emotions and look for a solution to this situation. If you get to the root of the problem you might be able to solve it and save your relationship.