When you are dating a man, before getting into any commitment it is important to know the details about the man. Assess the man whom you are dating thoroughly. There are many women who get cheated and emotionally broken because the man that they were dating was already married. To make sure that this is not the case with you, have a look at how can you tell that the man whom you are dating is married.

• Keep an eye on how he presents himself and how he poses. If he is extra sugar coated from the beginning, then there is something fishy about him. Observe him closely for his actions and behavior.

• Ask him for his drivers’ license and memorize his address. You can also use the internet and conduct a people search by putting his name. You can ask him questions about his family and relatives. If he behaves awkwardly and escapes answering any questions regarding family then there is quite a possibility that he is hiding something from you.

• Observe that whenever you have decided to meet up, he might turn out to be late and as soon as he arrives he will start giving you explanations and greet you in a romantic manner. Listen to him carefully and try to read between lines. If he is hiding something, it will come out soon.

• A married man will never invite you over to his house willingly. If you ask him, he will come up with some lame excuse. Listen to the excuses that he makes. You can also call him up and ask him to come and meet you at a short notice when you haven’t planned out a date. It is quite probable that he will excuse himself with an excuse. Try this out 2-3 times, if he escapes every time then there is a possibility that he is hiding something from you.

• Check out for the places that he takes to you for a date. Most of the times he will take you to limited places or prefer driving down to your house. He will want to keep your affair a secret and never take you to social gatherings where you can meet his friends. When you are about to part after your date, request him to stay for a bit more time. If he tries to avoid you then, there is something sealed in his heart that he does not want you to know.

• He will always tend to avoid or look embarrassed on any surprises that you give him. When in public he will try to be away from you and not show that you have an intimate relationship. You can plan out and say that you want to take him for a surprise date somewhere. If he back out or gets furious or is anxious to know, you definitely have something waiting for you.

Watch out for these signs in the man whom you are dating. It will give you an idea whether you are dating a married man. However, before you reach any conclusion, it is important that you confirm and talk over things with him, so that there is no misunderstanding.

Mark Perry

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