Kissing a girl is always a matter of nervousness for guys. Similar to the first time that you approached her or when you asked her for her number, kissing the girl can be one of the main points when you can get rejected. Usually guys wait for a long time until they first kiss a girl, they would talk for hours and then finally when they drop her at a house, they make the moment like a movie by kissing her outside her door. If you are scared and confused whether you should kiss your girl and how to kiss her, here are some tips that can make you feel at ease.

Before you kiss your girl ask yourself a few questions. For how long have you known each other? If you have been seeing each other for more than a month or two and know what her true feelings towards you, maybe even she is waiting for the moment. Is she prepared for it? When a girl is not prepared for getting a kiss, she might just get put off. See her reaction when you hold her hand or hold her by her shoulder. If she is hesitant and acts fidgety, she is still not prepared. However, if she feels comfortable and blushes, then maybe she is expecting the moment from you.

To kiss a girl smoothly, start by touching her in a sensual manner. When you are in a conversation touch her arms and hold her hand and keep caressing them for a long time. See how she reacts and then move on to touch her hair and put it behind her ear. Keep the conversation focused on her and ask her about her hair color, her jewelry and her perfume. Ask her whether she usually wears her hair like it is done at the moment or has she ever tried different hairstyles. If she is not withdrawing from you touching her hair or arms, she is quite prepared for you to kiss her.

Throughout your conversation hold her hand throughout. Give it light squeeze and wait back to observe whether she squeezes it back or not. If she squeezes your hand, she is ready for the kiss. Usually, when girls are not ready for getting kissed, they will not squeeze your hand back and would withdraw her hand from yours. In the middle of the conversation stop talking and glance at her, if she looks comfortable then you can go ahead and kiss her. If she turns away her head when you attempt to kiss her, give a peck on her cheek and then her neck. She will turn back and kiss you. If she moves away do not consider it as a rejection. Move past and change the topic.

Remember that whenever you kiss a girl, have an eye contact with her and sound slow and smooth. Give her a sensual look starting with her lips and her eyes. Keep observing her reaction if she gives you a positive reaction, she is definitely imagining you kissing her. Usually, when a girl wants you to kiss her she would touch her own lips for a few seconds, brush her hands against your chest, look at your lips or squeeze your hands. If your girl gives these responses then she wants you to kiss her.

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