Because a huge number of women cannot or have no orgasmed and the majority find it difficult to orgasm from sex, the media focuses intently on helping men to find their female partner's erogenous zones and ways to turn them on. Yet there is still a whole world of ways to drive a man wild out there and they're being largely ignored, so here are some ways to find and stimulate the male sensitive spots and essentially return the favor...

It makes sense to start sexual intercourse with foreplay, so we shall start there too. There are plenty of male spots all around the body and the main focus is around the genitals and lower abdominal area. However, the nipples are the one sensitive spot on a man that can be accessed while you are still face to face, or even in a semi-public situation. Turn your man on before you even get home by sliding one hand under his jacket and gently rubbing the areola around his nipple. Different men have different sensitivities so you may even want to give them a pinch to get things started.

Once you're along you can concentrate on the other male sensitive spots. Next up is the belly button and the region below it up to the penis. Stroking your man gently here or kissing up and down his stomach, teasing him that you are going to go lower will turn him on no end. This is because the lower abdomen contains a 'break' in the abdominal muscles (right down the center) known as the Linea Alba which is incredibly sensitive. Run a finger from the center of his neck all the way down to his penis before you move onto the other male sensitive spots.

While you are performing oral sex it's not unusual to wonder what to do with your 'spare' hand. It's okay to hold his leg or stimulate yourself, but much better is to stimulate one of the many male sensitive spots in that area. For instance you could tickle his inner thighs, gently massage his testicles in your palm (be careful not to twist, but squeeze instead) or even find his G spot, located inside his anus.

The number one and top dog of the male sensitive spots is one that most of us know about but have never explored: the male G spot. Some are too intimidated to try, but it's actually not hard to find. It will be hard to find if you don't use lubrication, however. The anus doesn't create lubrication in the same way that the vagina does so be liberal! Dildos, vibrators or fingers are all great for this area.

These male sensitive spots are all highly arousing for your man. While some might find they don't enjoy one or two because they are too sensitive, you can always try others like stroking the back of his neck, licking his ears or running a rigid finger over his back muscles. Whatever you do, be sure to try out all of these tips for a rich and varied sex life with your man.

Stan Tian

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