One of the age old questions that men really want to know the answer to is how to please their woman in bed every single time. Women, being anatomically different to men, require a combination of mental and physical stimulation as well as lengthy foreplay and a deep sense of security in order to firstly become aroused and secondly achieve intense orgasms. We're here to tackle the foreplay and sexual intercourse part of pleasing a woman, but with less focus on the vagina and more focus on how to stimulate the sensitive parts of females elsewhere in the body.

Chances are you're going to start foreplay with kissing, and there's no part of a woman more laden with sensitive areas than the face. Stroke and play gently with her hair, kiss her cheeks and lips, rub your nose against hers and kiss the inside of her neck and up to her ears. Do this and she'll most likely throw her head back or at least to the side, giving you the go ahead to kiss her throat and brush her hair out of the way too. You don't just have to touch, either. Whisper something into her ear so she gets a warm blow in her ear that will give her goosebumps and you the perfect platform to move onto the other sensitive parts of females that she has.

Women love to feel like their man is strong and can pick them up in a variety of positions. If you're lying on top of her then slide one hand under her back, stroking up and down the lower area and around her hips. Chances are she'll arch her back towards you, letting you pull her in close, support her and keep stroking that very sensitive area either side of the spine. This is a great place to stimulate during sex too, especially when she is on top or you are in the lotus position.

Women differ in their female sensitive parts and what they like to have stimulated, but one they mostly all agree on is the breasts and nipples. Don't forget this area is incredibly sensitive so be very gentle and don't just jiggle the breasts around. Stroke gently from her armpit (another sensitive area), down the side of her breasts and underneath, cup it in your hand and hold it in place so you can lick and gently suck her nipples for extra stimulation.

Remember to try stroking, kissing and massaging all parts of your lady to see what she enjoys and what she doesn't. Don't be afraid to ask her if she is enjoying something you are doing, or if she's too shy hold her hand and let her squeeze when you are doing something she particularly likes. There are many sensitive parts of females, but they're not always the same for every one. Part of the fun is exploring your partner to find out what turns her on and makes her orgasms more powerful and frequent.

Stan Tian

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