Self conscious means thinking of your acts and how others think about yourself. It is good to be self conscious. But, never be over self conscious, it will curb your growth. Being self conscious is highly helpful in certain situations. It helps to have control over your anger as you will be thinking how people will think of yourself if you rage out in midst of everyone. As a result you will try to calm down, which not only leaves a good impression about you, but also saves your health and relationships.

A religious belief is that being self conscious, protects from making a sin. You will hesitate to harm anyone. It is essential to be self conscious. Some people do not have this instinct at all and show a bizarre behavior that hurts a great number of people.

You can learn to be self conscious if you place yourself in others shoes. If you can think how others act hurt you. This simple thought will increase self conscious in your every move.

Some people do not have a dressing sense and dress themselves in an awkward manner that causes inconvenience to others. Look at yourself before the mirror after you are dressed and imagine others in similar outfit and think how uncomfortable it would be for you. Then you will automatically start to dress neatly.

All the above tips help you to be self conscious. Gist of the above discussion is that try to have a check on all your actions, think twice before you act. You will start to develop being self conscious.

However, it is also essential to be not overly self conscious. It is highly dangerous rather than not be self conscious. Over self consciousness may sometimes even lead to suicidal thoughts. Just like over dosage of drugs is fatal it is also dangerous to be self conscious. It reduces your success rates.

If you are highly self conscious about yourself, then you will think that someone is watching all your acts and you will automatically develop the fear that they may comment you. If you continue with the same feeling you slowly stop moving socially. Never try to please any one. This automatically reduces self conscious as you will always be checking yourself whether you will be able to impress others or not. The final result will be a worse one which ruins all your thoughts. Hence, act normally without trying to impress others. Good work attracts each and everyone’s attention, which ultimately fetches the fame you desire to have. Therefore, it is essential to concentrate on your tasks rather than on the outcomes.

Some people are less self conscious as they do not have a correct opinion about themselves. Start to think that you can achieve anything and you will start to develop self conscious.

As can be seen from the above discussion it is essential to be self conscious. But, at the same time it is essential to be not too conscious as it may result in worst results.

Jason Ladock

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