Men can be complicated at times. You just need to have patience and understanding when he has his bad moods. You may also have to remember what turns him off, which would be something you said or a subject you must have casually brought up? You have to remember which topics may turn him off.

If you bring up the subject of marriage that is the first turn off for most men. It may look like you are interested to get married right away, or that you are looking for a long time commitment. Try to understand that the man may not be emotionally ready to discuss or make a major decision about that topic. If you are just starting a relationship, this topic is the furthest thing from his mind and bringing it up would be the biggest turn off for him. He may then have second thoughts about your relationship.

Talking about money is a big turn off for a man. Don’t ask how he earns his, how much and how he spends his money. It is something too personal to share and talk about especially if you are just starting to get to know each other.

Don’t bad mouth anybody. This is one area that is a big turn off for a man. If you bad mouth somebody while talking to him, then he would have thoughts that you would do the same thing to him too.

If you are discussing a particular topic that may get you excited or emotionally involved, be courteous about your ways of doing or showing it. Don’t be vulgar about it. Avoid swearing because this is a big turnoff to a man.

Don’t start a controversial topic which may cause both of you to start arguing. One of the topics is usually about the supremacy of the male over the female or vice versa. A man may not want to argue about such topic and would prefer to discuss something else. It would look to him like you are challenging his male ego, and that is a turn off for him.

Another turn off for a man is when you talk about your own problems – family, work and other frustrations that you want to share with him. It would be wise to stay away from these topics and be more open to talk about positive and happy thoughts that you can share with him. Talking negative about anything is a big turn off to a man.

Don’t talk about your personal hygiene and health issues. This a topic which is a great turn off for a man because he considers this as too personal to talk about; and don’t ask about his either.

Don’t try to dominate the conversation. The guy may look at you as too bossy for his own taste. Talking more about your accomplishments and your future plans about your life may be such a turn off for him. It should be a tamed conversation that would make a good connection between the both of you. Just be sincere enough to show your interest in him without offending his sensibilities.