Nothing beats the excitement of being in a relationship for the first time. It’s simply wonderful and amazing to be in connection with another person who’s not related to you at all. Being young and in love is difficult yet full of fun. Enjoying what you have and make the most out of it is the name of the game called love. One big question that most first timers ask is how they can tell their partner they love them when they don’t really have an idea on how to do it perfectly. Expressing your feelings is harder when you don’t have any idea at all. It will be best to follow the following rules so you’ll deliver your feelings appropriately:

• Get a pen and paper and put into writing what you want to tell your partner.

• Do some brain storming, once you’re done, you can put it into writing and scatter them all over the house.

• You can text him about your feelings when you don’t have guts to say it personally.

• Leave messages in her/his voicemail.

• You can give him a CD with your favorite song or the song you personally dedicate to her/him.

• Bake a cake and write I love you by using an icing maker.

• Bestow her flora with a message.

• Take him/her for a walk or a date you rarely do.

• Create a trade mark sign which you share with each other.

• Listen to her without interrupting and after she’s done, tell her what you want to say.

• Make friends with your partner’s friend, this will make her/him feel really loved because he/she can see your effort in befriending his/her friend.

• Give him a massage you don’t really do often.

• Cook for him.

• Give him a scrapbook you personally made.

• Celebrate your anniversaries with rituals you don’t really practice together.

There are over a hundred ways to say you love your partner for the very first time but it’s just so hard to express what you really feel without the awkward feeling. But by exerting extra effort, you will be able to make him/her feel really special and loved. Being a first timer in any field can be hard and risky, this also goes with love, it’s hard to take risk so you need to relax first. Remember that this is your life and not some other television show or movie.

You are in reality which means you need to take everything slowly but surely. Always remember that fire will not burn right after you tell your partner of your love. Although it will keep on providing light, it will not explode for your benefit. You should always make sure that you assure your partner you love him/her without sounding so cheap. This will give him/her security she/he needs from you. Every person needs assurance that being loved may also mean staying with the relationship.

Jonathan Pitts

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