So you like your partner, you find him or her attractive, but questions remain and run through your mind, like:

- How long would it last?

- Would he or she keep finding me attractive?

- Would we be able to talk to each other in a month, a year?

Questions like these can disturb sometime and in any case it would be nice just to have some stable data to be able to test your relationship compatibility.

Once your can answer the questions above and others similar to yourself with enough reliability, the life would become easier and lighter, the mind would stop be bothered with those unnecessary concerns and instead you'd be planning your vacation and holidays together light heartedly.

I want to give you 10 important points to discover about your partner and yourself to test if your life would go smoothly together or there would be quite a few arguments and quarrels on the way.

Please, be advised, that whatever you decide your compatibility is based on the question I give, something can be done about it! And quite a lot, for that matter. But you'd better know where you stand, wouldn't you?

Here are the tests and yes they are simple but very powerful, when looked into thoroughly:

1. What do you like doing compared to what your partner does?

2. What do you hate doing compared to what your partner does?

3. What do you like talking about and what your partner does?

4. What do you rather not talk about and what about your partner?

5. What do you like listening to and what your partner does?

6. What would you really not listen to? What about your partner?

7. What do you both think a person should have to be happy?

8. What do you both think a person better not have to be well?

9. What do each of you dream to become if that would be possible?

10. Where would you really hate finding yourself as a person?

These are quite profound questions, aren't they? But they quite often outline the mental state and the envisioned future of a person. According to some very serious studies, a person quite often finds himself exactly where he envisions himself and his liking or disliking seldom change too sharply.

So what I suggest here is to ask those questions yourself and your partner and try to decide just how much of a common ground you have right now. That might give you a clue and a start.