After a child's first birthday, all parents look expectantly for that next milestone - potty training. No parent wants to plan that second birthday party around diaper changes. There are many signs to look for in beginning a potty routine which is influenced by a child's ability, aptitude and maturity. However, there are several tips and techniques you can use to hasten the blessed day when you suddenly look around for junior and find him on the pot all by himself!
1) Educate, educate, educate! – Read books, watch movies and talk consistently about the potty and going. Explain the big boys and girls go on the potty, let the girls go with mommy to the potty and the boys go with daddy. Talk about the good parts of being trained like being clean and dry and being a big kid now.
2) Make it a game – This is so important! Kids by nature resist anything which is not a fun learning experience. Have boys aim at a cherrio you place in the potty and after cleaning it, leave a dot of dish soap. They look forward to making bubbles! The use of play, music and toys during potty training keeps little Johnny from getting bored or distracted and keeps him looking forward to going.
3) Make it a ritual – Make the experience as close to the same every time so your child knows what to expect.
4) Timing is everything – Repeat the process every hour for 3 to 5 minutes. Do it at times your child usually has a bowel movement or urination, like after a meal and after sleeping.
5) Always be prepared – When traveling or away from home, bring a folding, plastic adapter ring that fits onto an adult toilet seat, extra tissue and wipes. This makes the process as much like going at home as possible.
6) Praise is essential! – Give your child social and private praise for sitting and going on the potty and for staying dry. In the first few days, when the potty routine is successful, try giving a reward.
7) Make washing up part of the fun – Show little Susie how to wash hands and dry hands. Try using colored or foamy kids soaps.
Potty training a child takes patience and diligence. Staying on task and being consistent make it that much easier for you and your child. It's important to keep the whole experience fun and enjoyable for the best results.