How to Find Rich Men

If you are looking to snag a rich guy then there are a few things you need to know. Finding a rich guy is not really the hardest part, they are everywhere but the hard part is getting one of them to notice you and take interest. There are a lot of women who come from less financially stable backgrounds (to put it nicely) who are able to find rich men and live happily ever after. There is however a certain persona that you will need to possess in order to do this. Rich men look for a certain type of woman, whether she has money or not is not usually an issue, unless you are talking about men with family’s that are in extremely high social standing.

Dress to Kill

Rich men may not always care whether or not a woman has money but they are certainly going to take notice of the way you dress. If you want to find a rich man to hook up with for the night then a bikini top, daisy dukes and flip flops will be fine. However, if you are looking to earn respect and gain some sort of meaningful relationship with a rich guy then you may want to wear something a bit more upscale. Make sure you dress appropriately for the event or occasion. In other words do not wear a cocktail dress to walk through Central Park.

Frequent Upper Class Lounges

Rich men are a rarity in local watering holes where people shoot pool, smoke cigarettes and get rowdy. They can normally be found in nice upper scale lounges that have a piano bar and a nice atmosphere. Many of these places cater specifically to singles, either once a week or on a continual basis. If you go in one of these places, sit with very good posture at the bar and appear to be slightly bored. Whatever you do, do not get sloppy drunk! In fact, keep your wits about you at all times. You will want to be coherent enough to have a nice stimulating conversation if a man should approach you.

Watch for Signs That He Is Married

There are a lot of rich men who are simply players and go out scouting for women they can have a good time with and discard. Some of these men are married but remove their wedding bands before going out for the evening. There are many signs that a rich guy is married. The biggest one is a tan line around where he normally wears his wedding band. Then there are other signs that you need to watch for. For example, if he asks you to leave with him for a nightcap but suggests your place or a hotel room then he may very well have a wife at home. If you do start dating a man and he never brings you near his house and keeps odd hours of when he can see you then that is also a good indication that he may be married.

Go to the Horse Track

The horse track is notorious for rich men. They can be found from one corner of the track to the next and there are usually quite a few to choose from. Even if you do not have a lot of money with which to place bets you can still go and bet a couple of dollars on a horse from time to time. Try sitting in the lounge and scoping the place out for single looking men. You can either initiate contact or you can get yourself within close proximity of one of them and subtly flirt with him through eye contact. Just be sure you note the word subtle, you do not want him to get the impression you are a hooker!

Attend Golf Tournaments

Golf is another rich man’s sport and you are bound to have quite a few selections at a local golfing event. This may be an extremely boring day for you but if you come away from it with a gorgeous rich guy who seems interested in you then all was not lost. You will want to use very similar tactics here as you did at the horse track, all the while taking care not to be obvious. Never appear as though you are there looking for a rich guy. You want the encounter to seem like chance so you may want to have a very good excuse ready for why you are at the golf event in the first place.

Never Talk About Money

It can be tempting to pry into a man’s financial affairs, especially if your goal is to find a rich guy but this is a very bad idea. This is the number one sign of a gold digger so do not do it. You should train yourself to detect a rich guy before ever going out to look for one. There are a lot of things to look at. Pay attention to his watch and shoes. Look at the kind of car he drives and the way he carries himself. You must also remember that you will also encounter guys who are at the same events as you but looking for rich women. To avoid wasting your day with one of them know how to spot a true rich guy.

Once you meet your rich guy do not be “easy” with him. If a guy is just out for a good time you will know it by turning him down a couple of times. If he stops bothering with you or calling on you then you will know that all he was after was sex. However, if he has a genuine interest in you then he will not pressure you to do things that you do not want to do right off the bat. He may offer to take you on a picnic to Central Park or even to Milan for dinner.


  1. Charlena Pugh Reply
    April 23, 2012 at 3:20 pm

    Those are great suggestions, keep up the good work.

  2. Mark Reply
    February 17, 2013 at 10:17 am

    I am a straight man that is looking for a good woman to ACCEPT me for who I am, but nowadays many women are looking for the rich man instead. Where are the good women like June Cleaver and Donna Reed were back then?

  3. Mariela Reply
    November 13, 2015 at 7:53 am

    Very helpful, I'm going to a polo tournament tomorrow morning.

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